Golden showers or ”Natursekt”

I have a theory that each country, like a person, has its own national mental pathology, and it seems to follow that each country, like a person, has its own national fetishes. In Germany without a doubt it’s golden showers, or “Natursekt” (“natural prosecco” you might translate it), at least in my experience as an independent escort here in Berlin. I would almost say it’s so common that it barely registers as kinky - most men who request it are not submissive in general, and usually the context is more of a GFE escort meeting. (Of course, there are exceptions - check out my page for kink and domination in Berlin & London if you’re curious to know more.)

So, what is the appeal of a golden shower?

I’d like to clarify that I only give golden showers - I don’t receive them, that’s not my fetish, so of course on some level whatever is going through the mind of the other person while I’m showering them is a mystery to me. But human sexuality really intrigues me and I always like to ask, if the situation allows for it, how it feels for the other person. Here are some of the things I’ve been told.

Scent fetish (connected to armpit hair fetish, pubic hair fetish, body hair fetish, etc)

Many people who book me choose to do so because they love body hair - armpit hair and pubic hair - and usually people who love armpit hair also love the natural smell of a woman. Humans trap a lot of pheromones in their body hair. I once read that for a man, the greatest concentration of pheromones is found in the armpits, whereas in a woman, the greatest concentration is found in - take a wild guess - her urine. Seeing how important the sense of smell can be for getting you hot and bothered, it’s not surprising some would want to seek it out at the source.

The profound intimacy of a golden shower

I’ve been told that golden showers or natursekt for some represent a state of total intimacy with another person; to know that the other person is letting herself go completely, to experience something private and taboo with her, something deeply personal and deeply intimate. In that sense having her warm stream run over you can be rather romantic…

Golden shower/natursekt/pissplay as humiliation

I know I said this usually isn’t a fetish thing, but sometimes it certainly is, and that’s also fun. What better finish to a session of various humiliating, embarrassing games for the sub than to take him into the shower and piss on him? I’m sure many of my readers would agree, haha.

Having been exposed to urination fetish at a young age

This has been the answer from a few people - either that they’ve seen it in a porno while channel surfing, or they’ve seen women and girls around them urinating and been fascinated by the sight. Certain early experiences seem to settle in the mind and not allow themselves to be removed - and why should they? Having a fetish or kink can make your sexual life a lot more exciting, if you’re not too ashamed (or perhaps shame is part of the appeal, but that’s a blog post for another time.)

Is it gross to give a golden shower?

Honestly, no. I drink a lot of water during sessions to make sure I’m well hydrated - this isn’t the sort of thing you’d want to do with the first piss of the morning (unless you’re specifically into that). Typically we’ll do it in the shower or bathtub to make clean up afterwards easy.

Curious about trying a golden shower for the first time?

Maybe this has piqued your interest to try a golden shower for the first time, or maybe you’re here becase you want to live out a long cherished secret fantasy - at any rate, if you want to book your first escort experience with me, all you gotta do is fill out my form. (If this was all way more than you’ve ever wanted to know about piss, don’t worry - a golden shower is not mandatory. 😉)

With love and light and all sorts of liquids,